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How to Deal with Dental Anxiety

“His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy. There’s vomit on his sweater already: mom’s spaghetti.”

Sound familiar? That’s Eminem. ‘Lose Yourself’ to be exact. But it could just as easily describe someone experiencing the extreme end of dental anxiety.

While it might sound dramatic, dental anxiety is a very real and often overwhelming fear that prevents many people from getting the care they need. For some, it’s a mild sense of unease. For others, it can bring on nausea, panic attacks or complete avoidance of the dentist altogether.

We get it. No one likes a trip to the dentist. But letting fear and anxiety get in the way of necessary dental care will lead to bigger problems down the line.

If you’re suffering from dental anxiety, know that there is a way to overcome it. The first step is identifying the most common signs of dental anxiety.


Identifying Dental Anxiety

Dental anxiety exists on a spectrum, from mild nervousness to intense physical symptoms, and understanding how it shows up for you is the first step toward managing it.

Here are some common signs and symptoms to look out for:

  • Visible distress (e.g., crying, panicking, paleness)
  • Sweating
  • Heart palpitations
  • Hyperventilating
  • Lightheadedness, fainting
  • Irritability, aggressiveness
  • Dreading upcoming visits in advance
  • Trouble sleeping

It’s important to know that these responses are completely valid, and that your dentist won’t judge you for them. In fact, many dental professionals are trained to support patients with anxiety and will work with you to create a plan that helps you feel more in control.


What Causes Dental Fear?

Dental fear develops in many ways, and several factors play a role in how it takes shape. Learning about these mechanisms helps patients and dental professionals deal with anxiety better.


Past traumatic dental experiences

Bad experiences at the dentist, especially during childhood, often trigger dental anxiety. Research shows that many adults can trace their fear back to negative experiences in dental settings. Pain during dental trauma can affect how you handle treatment for the rest of your life. Patients who had more check-ups before their first invasive treatment reported less dental fear. This suggests that good experiences protect you from developing anxiety later.


Fear of pain or needles

Fear of pain tops the list of reasons why people skip dental visits. This creates a troubling cycle: anxiety makes you more sensitive to pain, which makes the experience even more painful. 

Common fears include:

  • Injections and needles
  • Drilling sensations
  • Gagging or choking
  • Worry that numbing won’t work properly
  • Loss of control and personal space

The dental chair makes many patients feel vulnerable. This position, plus someone working inside your mouth (a very private area), creates feelings of helplessness. Not seeing what’s happening, being unable to speak, and strange sounds add to this discomfort. Personal space becomes a bigger issue if you have experienced abuse.


General anxiety or mental health conditions

Your mental health affects dental anxiety. You might feel more scared at the dentist if you have anxiety disorders, depression, or post-traumatic stress. Dental anxiety links closely with depression, mood disorders, and various psychiatric conditions. The dental setting might trigger flashbacks or memories of past trauma. Avoiding dental care because of anxiety can make your mental health worse, creating a tough cycle to break.

At Camira Dental, we understand these concerns and create an environment where you feel safe and understood.


Ways to Manage Dental Anxiety

Once you recognise your anxiety, there are several techniques you can use to manage it before and during your appointment.


Communicate openly

Tell your dentist about your concerns. They can adjust their approach, explain each step, and give you control over the pace of your visit. Something as simple as agreeing on a “stop” signal can make a big difference.


Breathe and relax

Simple breathing exercises can help calm your nervous system. Try inhaling slowly for four counts, holding for four, then exhaling for six. Repeat a few times to reduce tension.


Bring someone you trust

Having a friend or family member nearby can be a great source of comfort. Whether they wait in the car or sit beside you, their presence alone can help ease nerves.


Distract your mind

Many clinics offer in-chair entertainment like music, podcasts or TV shows. You can also bring your own headphones and listen to something you enjoy while being treated.


Book strategically

Choose a time when you’re least likely to be stressed or rushed. Early morning appointments work well for many people because there’s less time to overthink it.

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When You Need a Little Extra Help

For more intense anxiety, professional help may be the best way forward, and that doesn’t just mean psychological support. Many dental clinics offer sedation options designed specifically for anxious patients.


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There are sedative options, such as happy gas (nitrous oxide) that can help you feel calm and in control during your visit. These methods are safe, effective and tailored to your comfort level.


Therapy and support

In some cases, working with a psychologist who specialises in phobias or anxiety can be helpful. They can guide you through specific strategies such as exposure therapy or cognitive behavioural therapy, which can be highly effective over time.


You’re Not Alone. Camira Dental is Here to Help

At Camira Dental, we understand that dental anxiety is real. Whether your fear is mild or more serious, we’ll work with you to create a safe, supportive and judgement-free environment. We take the time to listen, explain and care, so you can feel confident about every visit.

Ready to take the first step? Contact us today to learn more or book a friendly, no-pressure consultation.